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Wednesday, October 8, 2014

Yom Kippur Speech 2014

Take a moment to look around the room.  We have a wonderful community.  Yes we could have more people, we could be in a different building, and we could have ... many things.  What we do have is over 300 men, women, & children who care about   celebrating Judaism in our community.  We have friends here.  We celebrate together.  We mourn our losses together.  We solve problems together.

We believe so strongly in this, that we pay dues so that we will have: our building, Rabbi, Educator, Teachers, Cantor, Pianist, Building Maintenance, & Administrator. This evening, I would like us to focus the education provided, under the leadership of our Temple Educator, Judy Alexander.

One of the basic tenants of Judaism is to study.  Without education, we will not grow.  This is where we learn about our history, our traditions, our rituals, and our reason for being.  This education helps us choose the direction of our life.  Sometimes we forget, some of the most basic questions.  The book, Kid's Prayers, reminds us of some of the questions we all had, as we were beginning to understand religion.

One child prays "Dear God: How did you know you were God?  Who told you?

Another prayed "Dear God: I bet it's hard for you, to love all of everybody in the whole world. There are only 4 people in my family, and I can never do it.

We have celebrated 100's of B’nai Mitzvahs in our congregation. We have a never ending stream of adults learning about Judaism, and how we can live more cooperatively, within our faith.  We learn in the classroom, and from our actions.  Stop to think what we modeled for our children and community, by sharing our building with the College Street Congregational Church for six months this year, while theirs was being rebuilt.  Another prayer from the book, Kid's Prayers, is: "How come you did all those miracles in the old days and don't do any now?"  I bet the people of the Congregational church saw this as a mini-miracle, when they had no place to worship.

The tradition of most Temples including ours is that adults attend educational classes at little or no cost and parents pay for their children to go to religious school.  In our temple, parents paid about $500 per child per year.  I ask you tonight, Why is this right?  Why should education be based on the parent’s ability to pay?

Your board asked these questions.  We spent hours debating this, and decided to ask all members of Temple Sinai, to pay for our Religious education. As your leaders, we try to make decisions that are in the best interest of our community. We decided to change the "tradition" of many congregations, including ours, by spreading the cost or our education, among all members. 

Each of you received a letter from me this summer asking for contributions to our Education Fund, to pay for our religious school.  We have received almost $11,000 of our $22,000 goal.  We need $22,000 a year to continue this approach.  If every member contributed $200, we would have over $30,000 for our Education programs.  Benjamin Franklin said it best, "An investment in knowledge pays the best interest." I want to show you how your investment in our students paid off, by asking Drew Coel to join me up here.

 I asked Drew to read the poem that she wrote in Dana Rachlin’s Chai School class last year. She was one of eight students in Dana's class. Dana's mission was to "develop a superb program, that established core areas and philosophy we could bring to Jewish teens in our community" and "To help High School students learn about their heritage and religion, in order to bridge the gap of knowledge, between Religious school and adulthood". 

(Drew’s poem will be included in my next blog.)

Thank you Drew for reading your poem today. I liked it as much the second time as I did the first.

I ask each of you sitting here today to decide whether sharing the cost of religious school all members is what you want.  Please go online, send a check, or call our Temple Administrator Stacie Gabert with your payment or commitment.  Thank you to the 27 members and one non-member that have made contributions. 

I have some final thoughts to share, as this is my last speech from the Bema as your President.  As with any job I take on, there are times when I say "why did I do this" and times when I say "I am glad that I am doing this."  I am truly glad that I am serving as President. I will miss my time on the Bema for lifecycle events. I will miss challenging the board, staff, & members, about how we have done things and asking, "Is there another way?"  I will miss having ideas not work, because I know we tried and I always learned something new. I will miss the relationships with other temple Presidents around the country and the ideas that we have shared.  Thank you to all who have been involved during my term.  It's been an honor and a privilege to stand before you as your president and stand beside you in leadership.  Your ideas, questions, and actions are an inspiration to me.  We are a great community and it is because of each of you.

Shabbat Shalom